For adults, reconstructing a sense of security is not about living with perfect correctness or excellence; rather, it requires expanding one's tolerance for 'mistakes' and 'failures.' You must experience, time and again, that making a mistake does not bring ultimate ruin, nor does failure spell total destruction. You need to feel the invincibility of your authentic self amid the disappointment of others, and sense the tree of life standing unshaken within the storm of fear.